Wednesday, May 6, 2009

2009 Women's Conference

I loved the sessions this year. There was a lot of discussion about choosing faith over fear, in addition to finding contentment no matter what your circumstance or situations may be, and there was a lot of personal experiences shared regarding the trial of infertility.

Julie Beck gave a fabulous talk friday morning (it isn't online yet). She shared a story about visiting her YW advisor before she passed away at the age of 80. And she asked her if she had a good life. Her YW leader told her, " I've had a GREAT life! .... all for except the 10 years I spend trying to create my family." Sister Beck was struck by this comment, as her YW leader had experienced 80 years of life, raised 5 adopted children, lost one child early in life, watching many loved ones pass away and the various challenges and trials anyone may have in life. Sister Beck recognized what a great source of sorrow infertility was to her dear friend and to all those who carry this burden.

I have often wondered why infertility strikes such a deep cord, and I believe it is because our divine nature to create life. As women this is our purpose and when this is challenged, there is great sorrow.

As a mother of two adopted children, the sorrow is not as great as it once was for me. As I yearn for more children in my family .... I have to admit it, I love feeling acknowledged and validated by others who get it because sometimes it feels like the only voices we hear are from those who don't get it.

Enjoy the sisterhood is such a blessing of support!

4 comments:

Dan and Stacy said...

I agree Addie...it is nice to feel validated and understood.

Hooray for Us! said...

Hi Kim - I found your blog through a friend of a friends infertility blog and would love to join. My email is alanmarisa@yahoo.com. Thanks!

RaeAnn said...

Thanks Addie. If you think about it, will you post the talk here when it is online??? What a nice sentiment that shows the depth of this trial.

Jon & Kim said...

I have goose bumbs everywhere. I am so blessed to have you as my friend. You have lifted me up and given me the strength I have needed in my life to deal with this trial of infertility. Thanks Addie for all you do!!!! I LOVE YOU!!!!